There’s always this argument and providing of details trying to prove Arya is feminine. The fact of the matter is that Arya is feminine because she identifies as female. The end lol Or not because it will still get argued.
But yes, the truth is that swordplay is feminine because Arya does it and she identifies as female. Running around getting dirty and wearing pants is also feminine because Arya does it and she identifies as female. Executing criminals? Also feminine because Arya does it and Arya identifies as female. Caring about or not caring about one’s appearance? Definitely feminine because Arya does both at various points and she identifies as female. Anything Arya does is inherently feminine by virtue of her identifying as female and being pro-women/feminist.
It’s halfway through 2023 and people still want to punish women and girls for not limiting themselves to the roles men set for them. There’s also still this need to classify certain behaviors and traits as only belonging to one group and not another. It’s reductive and sexist. I don’t doubt that 2024 and 2025 will be the same.
But really, why aren’t female characters who want to limit, brutalize, and restrict other women considered masculine? Cersei, Alicent, and Sansa support patriarchal restrictions on women which should classify them as masculine, right?